Although most men, when a girlfriend finishes with them, will just continue their lives and find a new girlfriend, there are times when a man wants the old girlfriend back and if that is the case, they will have a hard job ahead of them. It is pretty well known that getting an old flame back is a lot harder than getting a new one and this is for several reasons.
First, they already know your chat up lines and so are probably immune to them and second, they already know you better than any new girl will and they have seen something about you that they didn’t like.
So first, you will have to devise a new approach and second you will have to convince your ex that you have changed whatever it is she didn’t like about you.
As far as the second part goes, it is unlikely that she will just take your word for it and so you will have to think of some way to show her you can and have changed, for the better. In many cases, as the girls often think there was a lack of romance in the relationship, suggesting a romantic candlelit dinner may help or perhaps suggesting a picnic in the country.
If she accepts one of these, as a follow up perhaps suggest a romantic weekend away where you can spend time discussing your future together. One thing that you must remember though, is if this works and you are able to win her back, if you want to keep her you will have to keep thinking romance.
There are some girls though, that finish with a man because they were taking the relationship too seriously and if that is the case, you will need to take it slow and not rush her to make a decision.
As it can be so difficult to win back an ex-girlfriend, it would be wise to be sure that you really want her back before you even try. Sometimes the feeling of loneliness you feel is just a lack of female company and so it could be easier to be solved by just finding a new girlfriend.
Obviously though, if you miss that one particular girl and feel that no other girl could adequately fill the void you feel, you will have to suck it up, apologize and be ready to work on getting her back. Consider honestly what the reason was that she finished with you and be prepared to change accordingly.
If you have decided that she is the only girl for you, you will not just want to win her back but you will also want to ensure that she remains with you for the long term.
Therefore any changes that you do make will have to considered long term changes and not changes you make just to win her back. Hopefully though, all the efforts you do make, will be worth it in the long run.